Friday, 3 August 2012


A great part of courage is the courage of having done the thing before. Whether done right or appallingly wrong age is on our side to do it better by doing it again, only the coward dies a million times.

Who soweth good seed shall surely reap; The year grows rich as it groweth old, And life's latest sands are its sands of gold!

Sexual pleasure and interest in sex does not diminish, decrease with age for many men and women, tales might possibly render otherwise. Older men and women can enjoy intimacy and pleasure through sex, as well as reaffirm their shared feelings of warmth, love, and affection, the experience matures with age as to reaffirm the incredible homework done within the youth and later ages, ere what many fear, old age. It is clear cut fact that people grow with experience and the entire world of ecstasy is to eliminate boredom, through our risk taking actions or introduction of various instances recuperated through previous encounters. It might take long periods for people to engage new sexual acts, talks, positions or quests but once done, the joy it brings bridges the time lost. Seek but not in haste with the understanding and wisdom to get the best out of each move, knowing that the next kinky moment is only a step away.

Age withers only the outside as no matter how carefully you plan your goals they will never be more than pipe dreams unless you pursue them with gusto and age acts like a mere catalyst.

There are even some advantages to sex at an older age. Women no longer have to worry about becoming pregnant, a spree of fruitless physical and emotional ecstasy. Lovemaking becomes a more intimate, sensual, and prolonged experience, adventurously mind blowing to seemingly endless satisfaction.

More or less, It is a sign of a dull nature to occupy oneself deeply in matters that concern the body; for instance, to be over much occupied about exercise, about eating and drinking, about easing oneself, about sexual intercourse.

However, our bodies do change as we grow older, and couples may experience some difficulties in their sex lives. Among these are erectile dysfunction, vaginal dryness, and low libido. Fortunately, there are ways to relieve each problem. The human body remains a peculiar device, pat it on the back and the head swells and remember the cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity.

Sex and Aging: Vaginal Dryness

Arousal is very complex in women and, as they age, women may find that they are not producing enough lubrication to ensure comfortable sex, even as little as they remains impossible to maintain it to the time needed for such sure moments. Vaginal dryness is most often caused by decreasing levels of estrogen, particularly after menopause. A reduction in lubrication can cause the vagina to become less elastic. That, combined with friction, can make sex uncomfortable.

When a defining moment comes along, you can do one of two things. Define the moment, or let the moment define you.

There are two main ways to deal with vaginal dryness. The remedy that you choose will depend on your lifestyle and your health history:


Adding artificial lubrication is the most direct remedy for vaginal dryness.

Hormonal therapy.

To address the core issue, women might consider using estrogen creams or taking estrogen tablets. However, concerns have been raised that hormone therapy can increase a woman's risk of breast cancer, heart disease, and stroke, the choice is not just that a moment of bliss offers as a result but more or less, the pressure pleasure afflicts on the individual. You should consult with your doctor before proceeding with hormone therapy as a remedy for vaginal dryness. Nevertheless bright lights cast dark shadows when shone from only one direction.

The Great Way is not difficult for those who have no preferences.

Sex and Aging: Erectile Dysfunction

Erectile dysfunction is the leading sexual problem for older men, say what? Some are unable to achieve and maintain an erection, only the old? Others take longer to achieve erection, or their erections tend to be softer and less full, possibly gone bananas. When they ejaculate, it is with decreased force, men want to be energetic; not powerful if, not forceful but; but gumptiously vigorous.

There are various body changes that conspire to cause erectile dysfunction, including:

Reduced testosterone levels

Decreased blood flow to the penis

Impaired nerve function

Erectile tissue that has become less elastic over time

However, the leading causes of erectile dysfunction are health problems, with heart disease, high blood pressure, and diabetes heading the list. Men who have gone through prostate cancer surgery also may have difficulty achieving an erection.

To be or not to be............

The best way to avoid erectile dysfunction as you grow older is to live a healthy lifestyle. Exercise regularly, eat a healthy diet, maintain a good weight, quit bad habits like smoking or drinking, and you'll greatly reduce your chances of erectile dysfunction, the biggest things are often the easiest to do because there is so little competition.

The medals don't mean anything and the glory doesn't last. It's all about your happiness. The rewards are going to come, but my happiness is just loving your partner and finding alternative means of pleasing each other. Men who do experience erectile dysfunction have various options, including:


Drugs like Sildenafil (Viagra), vardenafil (Levitra), and tadalafil (Cialis) have revolutionized erectile dysfunction treatment. They work by widening the blood vessels inside the penis, making a strong erection easier to achieve.

Penile injection.

Men who don't respond well to those drugs might consider medications that are injected directly into the penis to help achieve erection. A tiny needle is used. This technique works better for men with more serious health problems like diabetes.

Mechanical devices. The Toys.

Vacuum pumps and penile bands can help older men achieve or maintain a good erection.

Surgical implants.

Men who aren’t helped by any of these techniques may want to consider surgery. Implants can be inserted that either keep the penis permanently erect or allow it to be inflated through the use of a pump located in the scrotum.

The Law of Win/Win says, "Let's not do it your way or my way; let's do it the best way.

Low Libido

Many people simply lose their sexual urge as they get older or they may find it deminishing. Numerous problems related to aging can create low libido, including:

Chronic health problems, like heart disease or diabetes

Emotional problems such as depression or anxiety

A reduction in the sex hormone levels in the body

Medications you may be taking for a health problem

Enjoy the successes that you have, and don't be too hard on yourself when you don't do well. Too many times we beat up on ourselves. Just relax and enjoy it.

A person with low libido should speak to a medical professional. Your doctor may be able to switch you to a medication that doesn't affect sex drive or help diagnose a health problem causing your lack of sexual interest. Every man in the world is better than someone else and not as good as someone else.

Sex is a wonderful experience that can be shared and enjoyed throughout your life. Don't assume that sexual activity must slow down just because you're getting older. Address the effects of age, and keep enjoying intimacy.

You must sacrifice, train, do everything possible to put yourself in a position to win. But if you consider second or third a failure, I feel sorry for you.