Sunday, 9 December 2012

FEAR, ANXIETY AND DESPERATION KILLING, WHAT LOVE/CARE.

Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity.
Love is sometimes referred to as being the "international language", overriding cultural and linguistic divisions. This absolute simplicity means that the person is then dissolved, completely absorbed back into the whole for oneness. All division is reconciled in the one to achieve a caring state, that encapsulates all other feelings.

Love is the master key which opens the gates of happiness.

Transitionally care supersedes love for Caregivers and carers are words meaning unpaid relatives or friends of a disabled individual who help that individual with his or her activities of daily living, that is love at it's best. The words may be prefixed with "family" "spousal", "child", "parent", "young" or "adult" to distinguish between different care situations, and also to distinguish them definitively from the paid version of a caregiver, a Health Care Assistant or Personal Care Attendant. Around half of all carers or lovers are effectively excluded from other paid employment through the heavy demands and responsibilities of caring for a vulnerable relative or friend. The term "carer" may also be used to refer to a paid, employed, contracted HCA.

But one of the attributes of love, like art, is to bring harmony and order out of chaos, to introduce meaning and affect where before there was none, to give rhythmic variations, highs and lows to a landscape that was previously flat.

With all respect the word love should have meant care, but most of the time we neglect the sense of love as care and care meaning love. Love is an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment. Love is also said to be a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection, the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another. Love may describe compassionate and affectionate actions towards other humans, one's self or animals. Our solely selfishness feeds our devastated souls wholly to forget to care.

Love is the emblem of eternity; it confounds all notion of time; effaces all memory of a beginning, all fear of an end.

Love refers to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from pleasure to interpersonal attraction. Love would never remain accidental and people care right to believe not in love at first sight, profoundly depicting lust not part of love or care. Though sometimes, we might find it impossible to love or care for another, why not? But if we care enough to eliminate the evil source of such feeling, we could always learn to love.

Every day I live I am more convinced that the waste of life lies in the love we have not given, the powers we have not used, the selfish prudence that will risk nothing and which, shirking pain, misses happiness as well.

Love may refer specifically to the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love, to the sexual love of eros, to the emotional closeness of familial love, to the platonic love that defines friendship, or to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love, or to a concept of love that encompasses all of those feelings. All of those feelings could certainly be achieved by learning to care with a heart, just by loving.

Indeed, nothing is more critically connected to happiness both our own and that of our children than how well we love and support one another within the family.

This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, compared to other emotional states. But simply the act and state of care combines all of those feelings into oneness.

I love all beauteous things, I seek and adore them; God hath no better praise, And man in his hasty days Is honored for them.

Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts. Life is a mere creative art, not an over powering brainwashing of inferiors but an up bringing of a perfect picture.

Life can't ever really defeat a writer who is in love with writing, for life itself is a writer's lover until death--fascinating, cruel, lavish, warm, cold, treacherous constant.

Love may be understood as part of the survival instinct, a function to keep human beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the species, why do we then watch ourselves die prematurely?

The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.

The word "love" can have a variety of related but distinct meanings in different contexts. Often, other languages use multiple words to express some of the different concepts that English relies mainly on "love" to encapsulate; care preferably should be used as the love of all.

Take my hand And lead me to salvation Take my love For love is everlasting And remember The truth that once was spoken To love another person Is to see the face of God.

Although the nature or essence of love is a subject of frequent debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't love. As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more emotionally intimate form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is sometimes contrasted with friendship, although the word love is often applied to close friendships. Simply we can encapsulate civilisation with care, surely we need to care for those we like and even in war prisoners are cared for, astonishingly the holy messages make it clear not only to love your friends but also to care for your enemies. Surely the enemy you know is better than the angel you dream of. When discussed in the abstract, love usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience felt by a person for another person. Love often involves caring for another, simply, to will the good of another.

Love is the direct opposite of hate. By definition it's something you can't feel for more than a few minutes at a time, so what's all this bullshit about loving somebody for the rest of your life?

Since love grows within you, so beauty grows. For love is the beauty of the soul.

An interpersonal relationship is an association between two or more people that may range in duration from brief to enduring, caring in this sense could be putting a smile on a stranger's face for a flashing moment, that is love. This association may be based on inference, love, solidarity, regular business interactions, or some other type of social commitment, or unwarranted interventions. Interpersonal relationships are formed in the context of social, cultural and other influences. The context can vary from family or kinship relations, friendship, marriage, relations with associates, work, clubs, neighbourhoods, and places of worship. They may be regulated by law, custom, or mutual agreement, and are the basis of social groups and society as a whole.

Love keeps on expecting the best! because love keeps on trusting God even when the right choices you make don't turn out the way you want them to!

Our task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within ourselves that we have built against it. Stare at the man in the mirror and whisper, "time to care, time to love, be brave". Before you turn away say, "I love you" and with your eyes closed think about those who really deserve your care?