Tuesday, 4 September 2012

LIVING A LITTLE MORE LONGER; VIA CHOICE

Riches are not from abundance of worldly goods, but from a contented mind. Every time we cannot get what we like, let us like what we can get.

It's pretty hard for anyone to get to a clearer conclusion of the obvious meaning of life, somehow life remains elusive as well as death is a camouflage lurking eminently in the shadows next door with imminent heart beats. Our unconsciousness accidentally might have wiped us into existence, though we take life a step at a time, surely we can live it satisfactorily a little more longer. If all states and conditions are transitorily lived then compromisingly altering our live styles could help cheat on the cycle of doom. The secret of contentment is knowing how to enjoy what you have, and to be able to lose all desire for things beyond your reach.


A Caring Guy Is a Hot Personality.

What do people want? People will appreciate you for your sensitive side, especially when they're upset. Put your arm around them, a welcoming hug and a tissue for tears when they arrive and fall. Nurturing is a powerful way to connect and evaluate your acceptance in a society, give and be given. The contented man can be happy with what appears to be useless.

Chivalry Still Has a Place and a Role

Don't forget the bravery, the macho-ism, when it comes to romance, many people would like you to take a traditional masculine role. This is especially true in the wooing stage of a friendship. The crown is in your heart, not on your head, Nor decked with diamonds and Indian stones, Nor to be seen: Your crown is called bravery: A crown it is, that seldom kings enjoy.

Dress to kill

Believe that looks always impresses, designs come and go, but a person's attention to his grooming and clothing should be long lasting. It's important to women and men from the first flirtation through the honeymoon and beyond. One intriguing study found that the color red made men seem more powerful, attractive, and sexually desirable to women. There's a caveat, though. Red doesn't make guys appear nicer or kinder. That part is up to you. Good clothes open all doors.

Be Human and Admit your flaws

Nothing captures the world's heart quite like a good person who wants to be a better one, people will love you for recognising the flaws within you, a short temper, for example, or a regularly sullen mood after work, admitting your mistakes and making an effort to address it, clarifies every beauty inside you. For many a big
name has fallen and succumbed to their flaws. Be a great conqueror but let not thine ambition slaughter thee or remember to let thine armour protect thine Achilles heel, as a strong personality don't let let love blind you through betraying your weakness. He who knows he who knows not, and knows not that he knows not, is a fool, shun him; He who knows not, and knows that he knows not, is a child, teach him. He who knows, and knows not that he knows, is asleep, wake him. He who knows, and knows that he knows, is wise, follow him.

Try Not to Fix Anyone's World

When something's bothering someone, it is advisable to offer all ears and not to ambush the person with torrential advice of know how to resolve it all, which might cause more damage. Men feel the need to fix things because they are solution-oriented, but to a woman, really listening is a wonderful, wonderful thing that deepens a relationship, which might be necessary till your opinion is sorted. Always allow your reaction be decisive and rejuvenating. Every individual is the architect of his own fortune.

Nodding Is Not Enough

Listening is important, but she also wants to know that she is being heard. Nodding along won't cut it. When she pauses, she's giving you a cue to respond in a compassionate, caring way, says Kirschner. If she tells you that she is upset because her boss gave her a tough time, she wants to hear you say "I'm sorry that work was such a drag for you today." And remember: Resist the urge to offer solutions.

Women Like the Slow Lane

Guys often want to take the quickest path to sex. But many women prefer the scenic route. "Women want sex but they get to it in a different means. They want to feel connected and understood, they want to be romanced. That means time and talking and touching, in other words, foreplay. Love upon a stronger foundation lasts longer.

Turn on Safe sex

Be the hero and practise what you preach, many methods out there like the truth but it's always elusive when people are in heat. Actually they burn every common sense, till the word protection exits through double glazed windows. Living longer is playing faithfully to yourself and the world at large, then wear them stuff. The pouches, rubbers, beads and the tokens if you believe they would save your soul from the STDs and the STIs. But always remember to share what goes on in the sack, treat your partner like a soul mate and not a victim, by talking to each and sharing what goes on with the pouch or deep inside the sack. Do not destroy that immortal emblem of humanity, the Declaration of Independence.

Sharing is Love

How would you feel to see someone curled up in your sweater or sneaked into your once adored shirt? Positively imitate each other with encouragements. Wear each other's favourite color, or smile or cross the other's arms when you do. Mimicking is your artistic way of putting you at ease and letting you know the other is charmed.

Reassure

Especially women like to be told they look wonderful, as well as men want to hear how smart they look. Pretty well everyone will cherish the fact that you notice without being told, putting a smile on another's face would be priceless . When a friend is wearing a sexy new dress, for example, she'll give you major points for saying how hot she looks, especially if you mention the dress before she does. If neighbour is looking particularly attractive, if she has a new haircut, if she's looking more fit, let her feel it.

Relationship Talks.

When you have to talk about the relationship, it doesn't mean you did something admissibly wrong, being there and talking it through depresses the stress out of you. Your partner or family, when situations arises put a foot into it and talk through or settle the "state of the union", what's going right, what's going wrong, or simply what's going on. This is a good thing. An honest, wide ranging talk can bring the you and anyone closer, relieving the consequential tensions. You may feel more comfortable sitting side by side, but many people prefer face to face, especially in discussing sensitive issues, encourage people to make eye contact with you as they're talking. And looking people in the eye during special events will deepen the relationship outside any room.

Time! Don't Miss A Moment

Time and tide waits for no man! Never promise and fail, therefore never give your word when there is the faintest of doubt. Be the one and never miss that sparkling moment, such as celebrations, special occasions, once in a time events and with all respect parties and funerals.

Romance Creates Heroes.

Romance is something everyone will always want, be you from Hollywood or lives on the last page of a fairy tale, nonetheless a remote island doing Flowers, an intimate dinner, a few lines of love poetry might sound cliché, but most people appreciate such simple romantic gestures and often show their appreciation after the lights go down.
Just as war is freedom's cost, disagreement is freedom's privilege.